"A really good song lyric because I can't think of one right now"

Todays blog will be about an interesting thought that came to my mind.
Why do girls like the 'assholes' over the 'sweethearts'?
Well, you see it's very simple if you see it this way. There is something that just annoys us to the very core. We love the excitement! We subconsciously like the fact that we get treated like dirt by jerks, because we can complain about it. Either to ourselves, or how many other girls like to vent, to their best friends. It's all a familiar game, you see. But then you question the obvious..
Why do we hate this act so much, yet keep getting hungry for more? What is it, that entices us to keep aiming for that kind. Because, we live for those little specs of pure surprise from those men. They will sporadically do something we'd say was cute, or heart-warming. Such as, saying something really adorable before they kiss us. A certain technique they may use while laying in bed with you, like the way they 'cuddle'. Would they call it cuddling? I don't know, but they aren't afraid to do it. Even I, myself, has had my share of 'assholes' (trust me) yet I haven't seemed to learn. I go through life thinking, Ugh! When will a decent guy just like me already. Truth is, they have. Same with a lot of girls, they think they aren't scoped out by the good guys but they really are. We are just too picky and turned off to the sweet approaches they automatically throw at us! Sure, it's all nice and dandy. But won't it get old? I know when I am with a guy who isn't known to do sweet things, when they ever did, it meant so much that I can't even put it in words. Girls love that feeling so much that they put aside all the shitty things that happen to them, just for the surprise. I realized this by thinking, I know some truly sweet guys and I have let them go so many times, even very recently. I've met a few people in the last few weeks who probably could be something but, the sweet texts and the cute-sy lines just get to be too much. I know a lot of people can agree.
The sad thing is, is it's the good guys who will take you on a genuine date.
It's the good guys who care more about you then what's in your...pants?
It's the good guys who are there longer.
It's the good guys who will love you in the end.

So why pass all those great things up, for that one spur of the moment feeling.
It's really not a right or wrong answer, for whatever that girl is more into.
It's just what you tolerate for yourself more. It's A, or it's B.
I haven't chosen yet.
When I seem to think I have all the answers.





this blog was inspired by: Sex & The City, Cosmopolitan July 2009, chats with Desiree late at night, the sweet guys that keep trying, and the other guys who never did.

mostly from Cosmopolitan though


yeah, this blog is super GAY