"maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back. Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be."

i'd be afraid to sleep with carrie, since she writes about them every week in the paper.
her job is based on sex, and these guys have no idea what she does. but how can they not? she's one of the top writers/journalists in NYC. Shows miss out on details like that. when the sex is bad, she explains how bad it is. as if the guys never see this, and if in fact other guys did, why would they sleep with her after that? it's like the thing with threesomes. a guy says he'd like the try a threesome, and how hot it would be and how much he'd love it. when it comes down to it, it's something they don't actually want to try. not only do they have to make sure they successfully please one girl, they have to worry about the other one. and bad performance goes for bad reputation. some guys won't care though, if the girl gets pleased at all. and it's trashy, but rare. clever things you learn from religiously reading Cosmopolitan.

Sex & the City really is perfection though, to me. no matter what bloopers i notice. I can't get enough of it, I watch it every night even though I have seen the episode multiple times before. my favorite character is Charlotte. she's the perfect balance between, classy yet sexual. all she wants to find is love, but she also wants to have fun in the meantime, before finding it. of course not the kind of fun samantha would have (which would be blowing the postman in her office within the first time meeting) but she'll go on dates and maybe once in a while have sex with them. but she keeps it classy and she lets her friends know when they go too far. Carrie is hung up on Big but when he is clearly unreachable she is out being what she isnt around him: a slut. however not when she met Aiden, her almost husband. But she cheated on him with Big, making Aiden see her as a slut. Miranda is just an odd mix of everything, except much more tomboy. she likes sex, but know when a guy wants her for a one night stand or not.

samantha is just a whore. but she flaunts it, and she's proud. making it acceptable for viewers.
it is true what she says though.
"there are two kinds of guys out there. the kind that will hold your hand and the kind that will fuck you."

I know exactly what a few certain people are out of those 'two'. Whether they like to pretend they arent or not, I know though.